Looking at Relationships like running a Corporation

A Guide to Simplify Any Relationship Using Common A Common Business Mindset

This is just an outline of a way to look at relationships. Working on a universal version for ALL relationships including: friendships, polygamous relationships, monotonous relationships, business associates, etc. (And yes, this is my own original research after a bad breakup)

Chapter One: Business Model

• Who are you as a person? What are you looking for? Where are you willing to go? When are you ready to make your move? Why are you looking? How much are you willing to spend? These are some of the who, what, where, when, why and how questions you need to be asking yourself.
• Know what you want before getting into a relationship. The other person(s) cant guess right all the time. If you don’t know, how will anyone else?
• For those of you just out of relationships, DO NOT even consider jumping into another without taking time to yourself. This also includes random hookups!! (You risk being attached.) Review what went wrong in your last relationship and clear up any lingering issues. Bring NO BAGGAGE to the next person!!! They don’t care about your exes or want to hear any of it!! (The length of this process varies, but generally when you are over the ex, then you are ready to date.)
• Be comfortable with who you are. If something about you makes you self-conscious, FIX IT. Confidence is very attractive.

Chapter Two: Interviewing

• Set realistic expectations during your search for someone. This should be self-explanatory.
• Talk about what you want up front. This way they will know if they are willing to go any further and not waste your time.
• Ask about their past, present and future. The past is usually the truth. The present can be lied about. The future is something that should have been thought about BEFORE meeting you. This will tell you if they have goals of their own. If they have to think about this one, chances are they aren’t very ambitious.
• ASK QUESTIONS!! Nothing wrong with asking about someone you are interested in. If you don’t ask, they won’t tell you what you may need to know.
• Read body language and LISTEN with your ears, and not for what you WANT to hear. People will usually tell you what you want with their body movements and by what they actually say. Pay attention, because most of the time, they are saying what they THINK you want to hear.

Chapter Three: Probationary Period

• Only get to this point when you focused on ONE person and BEFORE having sex with anyone. If you want you want a serious relationship, that is.
• Remember the questions you asked them during the interview process. This is the time to ask them again and see what holds up. (Approximately 3 to 4 weeks after the time you first asked).

Chapter Four: Incentives

• Dates
• Buying tokens of affection.
• Remembering the little things about them
• Sex (yeah, its about time!!), but only if you are ready for it.
• Massages
• Anything you can think of to make them feel good being with you. I would not recommend blackmail; they have to feel GOOD to be around you.
• You are the product, keep them interested or they will eventually look for new merchandises.

Chapter Five: Discipline

• By this time, like any job, people start slacking off. If they are doing something you DON’T like, then tell them what happens. DO NOT hold it in until you explode.
• If they are doing things that you KNOW you mentioned when you started during the interview process, remind them. If they continue come up with a punishment or hold back an incentive or two.
• Should these habits continue, you should move on to Chapter Six.

Chapter Six: Deal Breaking

• Things may begin to get boring with the person you’re with so either go back to Chapter Four, or break off the relationship.
• Cheating ends your relationship. Terminate with EXTREME prejudice.
• If you have cheated, it’s your responsibility to TELL them. Otherwise you can’t blame their reaction if they found out on their own. Sucks to be you then.
• If the person has irked you and you warned them and punished them, then its time to kick them to the curb. There are other people willing to make you just as happy as you are willing to make them.
• In the end, its about YOUR happiness. So if you aren’t happy, why deal with it any longer than you have to? There are plenty of people out there for you.

Chapter Seven: Promotion/Expansion

• Considering a lifetime? Marry this person if you are TRULY happy. Make them permanent partners in your business called you. CONGRATS!!

Players 101: Before Giving it Up (i.e. Basics) Dec 2006

Class is in session!! Ok, so you want a relationship and are tired of the games the fellas play. Here are some helpful tips and guidlines in understanding what to look for in a man when trying to get to know him. This means BEFORE giving up the pussy ladies. Cause if you give up without checking him out, then you just wasted your time and don't cry if it don't work out.


* If he doesn't ask you out (chase you), then move on. Men are all hunters to the core. If they catch the scent of prey (which ALL women are, I don't care what you say about that!!!), they will do whatever it takes to obtain it. It's a natural thing. If you throw out all types of hints ( WITHOUT giving up the goodies) and he doesn't respond, you aren't on his radar or he's retarded or he's trying to see how far you will go for attention. Now days, its that latter. We will WORK for the pussy if we want it, if you give it up early, then why work for it?! GUYS HUNT!!! GIVE THEM A CHASE AND DON'T BE THE SICK WATER BUFFALO AND BE EASY!!

* For the first few dates together, DO NOT set up an evening date. The problem with an evening date is that you (talking to the women in general here) tend to think emotionally. Think about it, a nice romantic evening, the perfect ambience, the perfect stereotype of a romantic dinner. The problem with this is that, if it all goes well, MOST of you get caught up in the romantic evening and not in what is actually going on in the date. First couple of dates SHOULD be during daylight hours (i.e brunch or lunch). Don't set up evening dates, your emotions are setting yourself up to get played

* NO DRINKS (Alcoholic, DUH). Most guys can drink and carry a conversation. Most can also notice how you're affected by alcohol and even know how/when to order more rounds to get you loose. Then you know what happens.

* Ask up front. Don't set yourself up: "If I ask too many questions, he'll think I'm pushy." How in the hell are you going to know if he has a wife/girlfriend, kids, babymama drama, a prison record, etc. If you do your homework, you won't waste your time. Its that simple. Ask him these questions to his face see how he reacts to your questions.

* Find out what his goals are. Begin asking him what his short-term goals are, then move on to long-term. If he hasn't thought this out for himself, why waste your time with someone without personal goals in life? He's not going anywhere, so the relationship you're looking for isn't either.

* Ask a man what he thinks about you after you've ONLY TALKED (NO SEX). Listen to his answer. A week later, ask what he FEELS about you. If you hear the same answer as what he thinks about you, his head is only in the game of getting you on your back and nothing else.

* Finally, LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION!!! Men were made to hunt you. The only defense you have are your women's intuition. If something about his behavior or what he says just seems wrong and off to you, chances are that something is wrong. If you question what he's said, or where he's been, ASK QUESTIONS!!

Let me know what you think about these things here. I'm seriously looking to HELP you in the game of love and insights into the fellas.

The Game of Life (Oct 2006)

"It's true that life is a game, but remember not to treat the relationships you come across as the same thing. Relationships are the tools to either help you through the game of life or keep you from your goal. For example, you treat someone like the dirt under your shoes and that same person could screw you out of a recommendation, promotion, opportunity, etc. Treat everyone with respect and you'll reach your goals much quicker than if you didn't."


I've seen and heard the phrase "Life is a game" so many times, that it makes me sick. This is the credo that players, hustlers, golddiggers, and downright lowest of the low in human evolution live by religiously. The quote you see above is my own version, one that I believe in wholeheartedly. I am sick of hearing friends, family and significant others getting hurt by people who are after their own goals and don't give a damn about who they hurt to achieve them. This goes for the guys that fuck and leave, the women who fuck with guys until the better model comes along, the cheaters, pimps, players, and the list can go on.

I know its impossible to meet a person with the upstanding qualities of being honest, trustworthy, compassionate, and all-around human being for once in this world, but I can hope for it. I'm not perfect myself, but I try to at least treat everyone like I ACTUALLY want to get to know them. I want to get to know each and everyone of you, but i do not want to waste my time if you can not relate to being hurt. Hurt finacially, emotionally, physically or in whatever way by someone you trusted, worked with, cared about, or didn't know. I want to know that person and maybe even help you out with any advice or insight that I can.

I guess I'll end this one by saying, enjoy life and play the game to the best of your ability. Just don't play with me or anyone I know or care about. If don't play right, life can be a bitch. KARMA.