Class is in session!! Ok, so you want a relationship and are tired of the games the fellas play. Here are some helpful tips and guidlines in understanding what to look for in a man when trying to get to know him. This means BEFORE giving up the pussy ladies. Cause if you give up without checking him out, then you just wasted your time and don't cry if it don't work out.
* If he doesn't ask you out (chase you), then move on. Men are all hunters to the core. If they catch the scent of prey (which ALL women are, I don't care what you say about that!!!), they will do whatever it takes to obtain it. It's a natural thing. If you throw out all types of hints ( WITHOUT giving up the goodies) and he doesn't respond, you aren't on his radar or he's retarded or he's trying to see how far you will go for attention. Now days, its that latter. We will WORK for the pussy if we want it, if you give it up early, then why work for it?! GUYS HUNT!!! GIVE THEM A CHASE AND DON'T BE THE SICK WATER BUFFALO AND BE EASY!!
* For the first few dates together, DO NOT set up an evening date. The problem with an evening date is that you (talking to the women in general here) tend to think emotionally. Think about it, a nice romantic evening, the perfect ambience, the perfect stereotype of a romantic dinner. The problem with this is that, if it all goes well, MOST of you get caught up in the romantic evening and not in what is actually going on in the date. First couple of dates SHOULD be during daylight hours (i.e brunch or lunch). Don't set up evening dates, your emotions are setting yourself up to get played
* NO DRINKS (Alcoholic, DUH). Most guys can drink and carry a conversation. Most can also notice how you're affected by alcohol and even know how/when to order more rounds to get you loose. Then you know what happens.
* Ask up front. Don't set yourself up: "If I ask too many questions, he'll think I'm pushy." How in the hell are you going to know if he has a wife/girlfriend, kids, babymama drama, a prison record, etc. If you do your homework, you won't waste your time. Its that simple. Ask him these questions to his face see how he reacts to your questions.
* Find out what his goals are. Begin asking him what his short-term goals are, then move on to long-term. If he hasn't thought this out for himself, why waste your time with someone without personal goals in life? He's not going anywhere, so the relationship you're looking for isn't either.
* Ask a man what he thinks about you after you've ONLY TALKED (NO SEX). Listen to his answer. A week later, ask what he FEELS about you. If you hear the same answer as what he thinks about you, his head is only in the game of getting you on your back and nothing else.
* Finally, LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION!!! Men were made to hunt you. The only defense you have are your women's intuition. If something about his behavior or what he says just seems wrong and off to you, chances are that something is wrong. If you question what he's said, or where he's been, ASK QUESTIONS!!
Let me know what you think about these things here. I'm seriously looking to HELP you in the game of love and insights into the fellas.
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